Though there are many tools for success that must be employed for any sort of social interaction, few are as powerful as the ability to read non-verbal communication signs. Our senses are attuned to another person when they are speaking to us, and we interpret those signals subconsciously. Being able to respond in an encouraging manner, to tell the other person without having to say so, that they should continue or that we are interested is an art. The study of body language has been prevalent in everything from business deals being cemented, head-hunting for top jobs in fortune 500 companies, and even in criminal justice careers like investigation, profiling, and attorneys specializing in defense. By knowing how to read a person through what they’re NOT saying, you increase your ability to effectively communicate, and get what you want out of the encounter. Continue reading
Before the inception of the cell phone, a man had to resort to leaving voice-mails or actually making a visit to the women he was looking to date. There may have been long times between talking, which could negatively impact the budding relationship before it had a chance to bloom. Today things are much different. People all over the world are connected to their cell phone nearly constantly, some even leave them on while they sleep. Due to this technological change in our society, women are easier than ever to communicate with instantly, so it’s important to know how to get a response.
Texting women isn’t a difficult process but it can be easy to do wrong. Someone once said, “Words are an arrow let fly.” This is especially true for texting. Once you’ve pressed send, or enter, it’s too late to retract anything. It’s important to say what you mean, and also to not overdo it. A woman will take it badly if a man is sending her texts all day, every day as a sign of clinginess and neediness, both of which are not something a potential suitor wants to be labeled with. It’s good to know how to make your communication by text matter, and how to elicit a response from the person you’re interested in. If this is a very new development between you and her, this article from wikiHow might help. Continue reading
Though it can be monumental to even secure the first date, it doesn’t matter much until it becomes more than that. During the first date, both parties put on a good show. Neither are being completely open, totally honest, or doing anything less than an Oscar-worthy performance. It can be quite the production to attempt to secure a second date while navigating unclear territory with someone you’ve just met and think you’d like to know better. First impressions are lasting impressions, and much as people would love to get second chances, that first impact doesn’t ever truly go away. If you have given the best shot you have at that first date, the second might be tricky. Continue reading
People everywhere, not just men, fall prey to something that would seem like simple common sense. All of us walk around with our phones attached to us, available any time, day or night, updating statuses, checking news, and sending texts to our friends and family. Most notable here are the kinds of texts that get sent. The average person usually begins with something harmless like, “Hey, how’s it going” or “Whatcha doin?” leaving the recipient to reply with an equally simple answer. Either “Nothing” or “Not much, how’s it going with you?” and neither actually accomplish anything. Continue reading
Look around next time you are out anywhere. People have their phones either in their hand or in close proximity. Few people can go 5 minutes without checking their phone. Somehow, society has begun accepting texting while in the same location. Instead of getting up to talk to the person face-to-face, a text is sent in as an impersonal messenger. We have even established dating texting rules to ensure success at sparking and maintaining relationships. Continue reading
The technology of today is so far advanced that it can even be used to flirt with and get a girlfriend. Gone are the days where you had to actually walk up to a girl and talk to her to get to know her better or get a number from her. These days all you need is a phone. Literally. You don’t even have to use your voice to chat up a girl anymore. You can text her instead.
Why use Magnetic Messaging?
Why would anyone try and get phone numbers this way or even try getting a date like this? Well, it’s quite simply easier and less painful this way. There is no fear of Continue reading
Rob Judge and Bobby Rio give some advice on the three myths that literally destroy your chances with women. They are rather counter-intuitive so don’t feel bad if you discover you are still doing them! If you don’t know who Rob and Bobby are, then we strongly recommend you check out our Magnetic Messaging Review. Continue reading
The bummer about picking up women is that you know that you’re a really nice guy, but when you are standing in front of a really cute girl you feel totally awkward and end up acting like a jerk. Continue reading
These are some of the questions which have come up most frequently amongst our readers and at the 21 Conventions across the world. The answers provided are primarily from professional dating coaches. Continue reading
We were really glad to have taken part in the 21 Convention in Orlando, because the professional dating coaches were amazing. We especially enjoyed co-author of Magnetic Messaging, Rob Judge’s speech. According to him, scripted opening lines and following a standardized approach are examples of “dick logic”; they are the things that men want to believe because they fit into male logic, but he tells us that women just don’t find it attractive. Continue reading